I'm happy to say things have improved vastly and while everyone is still adjusting, we are feeling much better about our current situation....
I left off on Halloween morning when He-Man and I was debating whether or not we should stay in this home. After taking a moment to ponder our conundrum, we prayed for guidance and decided to call our landlord. When we couldn't get a hold of him, we called our realtor. We were very frank about our concerns. Within an hour our landlord called back and began the process of fixing our most important concerns first.
I had a good cry and started unpacking. I'm almost positive I would've felt the same insecurity and terror moving to another place at that point because I was so overwhelmed by the whole experience. On Monday, the work started and we were all feeling much better. Our landlord, who is a very good man, showed me pictures of what the house was like when the last tenants left.
All I can say is "Wow!" I have honestly never seen anything like it. The house was totally trashed. The walls were badly painted and floors covered with drips of paint that would not come off. The garage was filled with trash with local library books strewn in the mix. There were, what I assume to be profound quotes, written in permanent marker written on the walls all over the house, holes in the walls, stains in the carpet, the list goes on.
At that point I had 2 epiphanies.
#1 When your dealing with that kind of destruction, any improvements you make are going to seem pretty major. I really believe that as the landlord worked on the house he was making amazing progress and it seemed like it'd be sufficient. When things change that dramatically, sometimes it's hard to see just how far you still have to go. Does that make sense?
#2 We really weren't the victims in the situation. The poor owner of the house lost thousands of dollars in this circumstance. Yes, we could've reasonably decided not to stay but we both felt strongly that we could help the situation become better for everyone involved. We had the opportunity to make a difference and help this guy out.
I'm glad we did because with the immediate improvements on the house and putting ourselves together has made this place feel like home.
So now that our refuge is starting to feel like just that, we've been able to venture out and explore our surroundings...
Yesterday, we went to the temple. He-Man and I traded between watching the kids and having some time to work there. It was nice and reminded me of how close to home we are, even if it feels so far away.
Yesterday, we drove past Disneyworld to show the girls what they can look forward to when they save up for our next vacation...I can hardly wait!!
This is our front walkway wall. I love the way it turned out!
By the way, look whose laughing now!! Reese's Pieces is the spittin' image of her Daddy!
So, there you have it! We've survived our first 2 weeks here in Florida! Hopefully, He-Man will be starting work on Monday and we'll be able to get into a routine.
In the meantime, here's a couple of gems I've happened to overhear in the past few days:
In the meantime, here's a couple of gems I've happened to overhear in the past few days:
Bunny: "Do you want to play at my house?"
Bunny's new neighborhood friend: "Hmmmm, yours! Although, we always could go down to the pond. (then she casually added) You can't swim in it though because you have to keep your eye out for alligators." That is when Bunny's momma fainted and upon recovery declared all puddle jumping restricted. Just in case. :)
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The girls were watching "Enchanted" in the car while driving through Pensacola. At the end when good overcomes evil, Bunny sighed and exclaimed, "This must be why they call it 'Enchanted!"
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"Wow! You've got a lot of kids!" (This is when I knew we were no where near home) Nope, Toto we are definitely not in Kans...er, Utah anymore!
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Button Nose: "Skooose Mees!" Exclaimed upon discovering that she can make bodily function noise on command. We're hearing those a lot lately.
We love you all! Have a good one. I'll leave you with one more pic...
Seriously, this kid looks just like her Daddy in his baby pictures. Except, she's got my E.T. toes.
Bunny's new neighborhood friend: "Hmmmm, yours! Although, we always could go down to the pond. (then she casually added) You can't swim in it though because you have to keep your eye out for alligators." That is when Bunny's momma fainted and upon recovery declared all puddle jumping restricted. Just in case. :)
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The girls were watching "Enchanted" in the car while driving through Pensacola. At the end when good overcomes evil, Bunny sighed and exclaimed, "This must be why they call it 'Enchanted!"
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"Wow! You've got a lot of kids!" (This is when I knew we were no where near home) Nope, Toto we are definitely not in Kans...er, Utah anymore!
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Button Nose: "Skooose Mees!" Exclaimed upon discovering that she can make bodily function noise on command. We're hearing those a lot lately.
We love you all! Have a good one. I'll leave you with one more pic...
Seriously, this kid looks just like her Daddy in his baby pictures. Except, she's got my E.T. toes.
10 comments:
RP is adorable! I love her expressions!
You're so far away, but so close on the blog! It's fun to keep in touch!
Hugs!
Loved your story, and glad that things are looking better for you. Reading that makes me glad that we don't have to move that far anytime soon, although it does sound a little exciting.
Also, I understood your epiphenies (have no idea how to spell that word) completely. It's so nice to have an understanding of things :-)
WOW!! That was a lot of catching up to do. I am so glad to hear that all is turning out well. It's amazing how the Lord works in our lives. I can't wait to hear more about your adventures in Florida. Keep your amazing, inspiring stories coming!
First of all, IM JEALOUS!! Look at that nice weather!! Its starting to get real cold back here in Utah! I really think your blog is living up to its title "Adventures" because this truly is an adventure in your family's life. Congrats again on your sweet little angel, cutie :)
So cute! I know EXACTLY what you're talking about with the landlord. I've been a "landlord" in that situation. When the place looks like a garbage dump, the change seems so drastic that you forget that a stain on the vinyl, a dripping faucet, a small hole in the door, etc. probably won't be acceptable to the new people. I'm glad it all worked out and he sounds like he was pretty understanding! You are now official... Floridians?? Well, keep us updated!
-Alyssa
ahh that RP is one adorable little peanut!!
Miss you tons!
I find it amazing that people are willing to live in their own squalor like those former tenants. I mean, my house gets messy sometimes, but it's nothing like THAT!
That little missy of yours is ADORABLE!!! If I wasn't completely done with having kiddos, she might make me want to have another one. :)
RP is the cutest baby ever!
So glad you are settling in and seeing the perks of helping to make the house a better place. I had that opportunity once and it was fun and challenging at the same.
We are super jazzed about spending Thanksgiving together!
Trishelle, my heart is pouring out for you... you are just an AMAZING woman, and I admire you completely! Your babies are beautiful and love that they are all girls! :) I'm glad things are going better... and can I say you just look gorgeous! Your whole family... we love you!
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